The more you try to be persuasive,
the more implausible you are.
Humberto Maturana
Violence Prevention
EU Project – a peace project?
Dr. Phil. Peter Amann
What is the problem?
Scenes
of violence are increasingly capturing daily media releases. Starting
with small hidden aggressive scenarios in families and familiar
residential communities over hidden and open mobbing in companies and
public institutions to brutal destructive violence: media coverage of
the violence phenomenon is almost an omnipresent and at the same time
terrifying phenomenon of our highly developed affluent society.
“Violence” in media presentation divides the society into offenders and
victims. Violence phenomena conveyed by the media give rise – in
whatsoever form - to fears in possible and actual victims. In order to
be able to live on, the actual victims have to suppress the fears they
have suffered and detach them from the conscious personality. Let us
think, for instance, of the abused children who often even after decades
of suppression still find it difficult to speak about the suffered
abuse. In case they do not address these suppressed and detached from
the personality memories or develop the future-oriented
strategies, these suppressed parts can life-long impede the personality
and restrain the own full potential. In certain circumstances a victim
can become an offender. To give an illustrative example: a 26-year-old
man who himself as a foreign immigrant and a drug addict had become an
outsider and killed three-year-old Cain, gave the following explanation
of his cruel deed: “when both boys were naughty, I got furious and
aggressive. My brain switched off. And then I see only darkness in front
of me. I just want to break something – I mean things. My body acts on
its own. I can not control anything anymore. I didn't want to hurt him
(three-year-old Cain), I wanted to punish him in order to make him
understand that what he had done was wrong.” This self-analysis of the
offender shows in his self-perception the immense destructive potential
that can be hidden in a person. How can this phenomenon be explained, or
better – how can this dangerous and scaring development be prevented?
Is
it sufficient to analyze the problem using the causal principle of
cause (fury and aggression) and the intended effect (to make him
understand something) to provide an adequately objective explanation and
subjective understanding of the violence phenomenon?
The analysis
can examine different individual causes of the problem using scientific
methods. It can provide individual scientific studies of the genetic
code as well as biological, psychological, sociological, socioeconomic
and other causes and combine the results into a cause-mix in order to
represent disposition to violence.
However, in view of medially
communicated acute violence scenarios, the question arises as to
efficiency and practical applicability of the findings obtained this way
in actual daily lives of “helpers” (parents, sisters, brothers,
pedagogues, police officers) and all those actually confronting the
violence phenomenon professionally or privately. Moreover, one has to
pursue the question of how the social framework conditions and
prerequisites can be modified and improved through specific actions to
enable non-violent coexistence, in particular, for teenagers.
Several questions with possible answers on this point:
1. A specific question: Is violence a male phenomenon? If so, do young men need specific help?
95%
of violent offenders that have been sentenced are male. In the case of
further offenders, the spiral of violence starts to spin at an early
age: mostly young men start to exercise their social role for different
reasons. In social groups – or alone. As recently – words fail me – an
offender in Norway spreading horror and grief who seemed to be almost
“normal” could have been preparing his outrageous violent acts solitary
and unnoticed for years.
Some further questions on this point:
What completely new understanding should the affluent society gain?
What
are the causes of violent excesses and how can the conditions evoking
them be modified so that violence could be reduced significantly and
measurably?
What are the motives – inner and outer – that bring people to torture, hurt and eventually kill other people?
What
can, should and must be done to substitute violence for peaceful means
in order to eliminate personal discrimination, humiliation and social
exclusion at an early stage?
How can peace be generally acknowledged as a true life principle and put into practice in actual everyday life?
2.
A specific question: How can Viktor E. Frankl's logotherapy and
existential analysis contribute to successful implementation of
violence-free lifestyle?
Viktor E. Frankl, having
survived even Auschwitz and other concentration camps, developed his
logotherapy and existential analysis – a meaning-oriented psychotherapy
which is now gaining significance in violence prevention.
What is the problem of violence – from the viewpoint of the meaning-oriented psychotherapy?
A
preliminary remark: of course, the meaning-oriented psychotherapy
distinguishes on the basis of the medical differential diagnosis between
severe pathological disorders which must be first of all treated by a
medical specialist and psychotherapeutical disorders which are foremost
subject to psychotherapeutical treatment.
From the viewpoint
of logotherapy and existential analysis, the problem of aggression
and violence lies normally in a false self-perception of the
offender. His self-perception (see the explanation of the 26-year-old
killer of three-year-old Cain) is deprived of reference to meaning. Due
to missing reference to meaning in his actions, his brain without
meaningful direction leaves its physical impulses to themselves. Brain
researcher Prof. Dr. Joachim Bauer is convinced that there is no
“aggressive drive” as such. It does not mean that aggression is
nonexistent. On the contrary, aggression (cf. aggression, lat., in
modern psychology means person's instinctive assaultive behavior
triggered mostly by suppression or frustration) fulfills useful
functions. It is crucial, however, to abandon exaggerated mythologizing
views of aggression impulses as of “Forces of the Evil”. According
to J. Bauer, the underestimated triggers of violence are rather social
exclusion and humiliation.
Modern brain research teaches that
people react to the results of exclusion and humiliation the same way as
to physical pain – namely, aggressively, also in political dimensions.
(J. Bauer, 30th Goldegger Dialogues, in:
http:/oe1.orf.at/programm/278065 and J. Bauer, Threshold of Sensitivity –
on Origins of Daily and Global Violence. Publishing house
Blessing-Verlag. München).
Therefore, it is required to redefine and
attentively monitor the reasonable threshold of sensitivity for
potential offenders in situations of social exclusion and humiliation.
In view of the instinct and tradition loss as well as ever increasing
number of new rules of conduct for young people, it is mainly the
abysmal feeling of meaninglessness, inner emptiness and lingering loss
of meaning that is very often induced by the norms imposed from outside.
Norms are often seen by young people - in spite of functional reference
to meaning – as “values without meaning” or as deprived of any
value and meaning.
Frankl's logotherapy and existential analysis can effectively cope with loss of meaning.
Due
to the loss of traditional structures, young people can hardly
integrate into communities supporting these structures and often feel
misunderstood or even humiliated in critical situations of exclusion or
on minor occasions. For teenagers, these critical situations are
triggered every time when they are misunderstood, rejected as a person,
treated disrespectfully, excluded or not appreciated. Lacking an
understanding and supportive person to vent their soul to, certain
overwhelmed youngsters, mostly men, search for the ways to win back
their cherished self-esteem – initially through minor aggressive
behavior and wilful acts. Girls are also increasingly involved in
violence scenarios directly or indirectly. But violence remains a
predominantly male strategy to overcome social exclusion and subsequent
feelings of humiliation. Other alleged escapes from social hopelessness
and bad feelings are depression (with presuicidal constriction) and
consumption of legal substances (alcohol, medicines, fungi, designer
drugs that are not yet officially prohibited) and illegal substances
(drugs, prohibited designer drugs). It is impossible to enumerate here
all the alleged escapes from personal isolation and sustained
humiliating situations.
Ways to solve the problem through perception of meaning and values realization:
Meaning-oriented actions and measurable outputs for violence prevention
In
view of the absence of satisfactory, sustainable and measurable results
of upbringing in families, schools, youth centers and other attempts to
prevent violence, a meaning- and value-oriented upbringing can make a
substantial contribution into violence reduction.
Frankl's
logotherapy sees a potential offender – in spite of all the aggressive
impulses and unconscious or conscious violence strategies – as a
spiritual person capable of taking a stance towards one's own
aggression, forcible impulses and all the circumstances, including harsh
environment, and to dissociate himself from them to avert a disaster.
Due
to the fact that a person can experience himself first of all in his
freedom from his instinctive drives, the unique spiritual person is
presumed to be endowed and actually evoked with “will to meaning”.
Sometimes the person should be provoked by values, involved in a
Socratic dialogue and eventually roused to action. One should not avoid a
meaning-oriented confrontation. In the course of it the will can be
distracted from will to power and meaningless lust increasing
destructive actions and attracted and transformed to a personally
experienced meaning.
Thus, the will to meaning becomes active indeed, also in violence prevention.
In
view of shocking facts of sheer brutal violence exerted by modern
weapons and capable of paralyzing individuals, groups or even
entire nations, it is urgent to find practical, specific and measurable
remedies against aggression and violence. Contemporary upbringing and
education aiming at “beauty, truth and goodness” with their humanistic
ideals, nevertheless, focused solely on economic efficiency fails to
cultivate peaceful disposition in young people. Upbringing aimed at
conformance to the set norms of society is no longer a sufficient
educational goal to exclude violence. Frankl's logotherapy has
originally emerged by reason of educational disaster in national
socialism leading to preparation and realization of dreadful acts of
force.
The first and most important aim of education at that period
was to subdue people to the norms of that society. It provided
submissive and obedient citizens ready to follow the diktat of their
time. At that time there was Fuehrer with his promises of salvation –
today there are never-ending promises of salvation of the insatiable
affluent society. Both promises lead to inner emptiness and an abysmal
feeling of meaninglessness.
What is needed now?
Firstly,
what is needed today is an education cultivating resistance to
meaningless submission to the diktat of the advertizing and consumer
society. Secondly, it is required to teach and train the new modified
perception of meaning. Thirdly, crucial is a dialogue culture giving
free room to take a responsible stance, especially for adolescents and
youths to feel their own personality and self-esteem. A young person
experiences social belonging in a dialogic culture of conversation.
Being taken seriously as a dialogue partner, he belongs to a greater
whole and his feeling of exclusion and humiliation is reduced due to the
feeling of being taken seriously.
It concerns not only hardly
integrable foreign adolescents, but also natives forced out to the edge
of the society. The shocking occurrence in Norway in the last weeks
urges a completely new comprehensive view of the problem. Due to
traumatizing exclusion and humiliation enhanced by drug or alcohol
intoxication, native youngsters also tend to solve their problems in
forceful acts.
Fourthly: meaning through values; tasks that facilitate and challenge
Using
the main means “Dialogue with the young person”, it has to be taken
into consideration that the helpers must present the contents,
(something of) value as a vincible challenge for the decision of the
young person. In the course of a dialogue, this leads to responsible and
practicable tasks for the young person.
Thus, meaning can be
found only through values that facilitate and challenge personal
development and can and should be reasonably demanded.
Summary
From
the view of logotherapy and existential analysis, the problem of social
exclusion and continuing humiliation experienced by people of any age
but mostly by male adolescents lies in infringement of the fundamental
value – DIGNITY – and hindrance or failing to facilitate the young
persons' potential which results in a weak or negative self-esteem.
The
central causes and prerequisites gaining its own dynamics in the origin
of forceful acts are infringement of dignity and an underdeveloped
self-esteem of young people due to weakening of the community feeling.
This causes a hardly repairable loss of trust detrimental for the inner
personality of the potential offender.
How can the planned EU project solve this problem?
Objectives
1. Principle objective
The
basic attitude of the young person should be linked in everyday actions
with the meaningful objective “violence prevention” through socially
integrating realization of meaning and personal encouragement. Thus, as a
targeted side-effect, the causes of violence – social exclusion and
humiliation with destruction of the basic value of dignity and
self-esteem of a person – are immediately transformed into creative
energy of meaning at the moment of social interaction.
How is it achieved in the project?
the
inputs of the psychosocial environment do not have to be suppressed or
restrained any more but they should be immediately transformed into
meaning through spontaneous actions over the input-trigger with the help
of non-verbal means (e.g., astonished friendly facial expression in a
role play and at the same time instant verbal humorous remarks on the
situation). To explain what they mean, the helpers preventively take the
blame for possible misunderstandings upon themselves before culpable
conduct becomes apparent – as a conscious paradoxical intention (a
logotherapeutical method). The labile self of the potential offender
should thus be kept open for rationally accessible emotionality to
exclude aggressive provocations. The first intentional actions should
already draw the potential offender to his own human potentials of
meaning. The underlying attitude – in a figurative sense – a paradoxical
one, implies that aggressive behavior patterns are linked to their
actual meaning at the stage of their emergence as an input.
2. Project goals
A
project goal is that potential victims train their perception where
they can be threatened with a violence input before actual violence
occurs to transform it immediately into a concrete spontaneous
perception of meaning.
A) A subordinate goal: immediate preventive dissociation from real violence in an individual situation:
to provide room through successful non-verbal and verbal communication:
a
means to achieve this subordinate goal: immediate exclusion of the
possibility of actual violence through role plays as to run away swiftly
or aggressively, to escape intentionally, to turn around, to speak
loudly, to call, if necessary, to shout along with other actions to
relieve the tension.
Temporal and spacial distancing from potential violence should be understood and stepwise trained through
training
of self-dissociation in order to distance from subjectively and
emotionally experienced problem and – if the relationship has got very
tight – to humorously admit objective facts that can not be changed at
the moment.
B) A subordinate goal: to strengthen relationships
Laughing,
smiling, humour as a possible spontaneous change of current behavior to
create a new, unexpected and spontaneous relationship pattern. New role
patterns should be learned and trained with the possible conflict
partner. The potential offender should be appreciated and treated with a
targeted attentiveness in his unmatched uniqueness as a person and
peculiarity of his situation in order to train his ability of
self-esteem. Parents and family, teachers, classmates, police officers
and other helpers should learn to direct and focus their respectful
perception and facilitate changes in potential offenders through role
plays.
This is the beginning of respectful treatment of the
personality of the potential offender – in spite of initial negative
inputs.
In this dialogic process of reversal, helpers should
turn into servers and take observable needs and concerns of the
potential offender as an opportunity to treat his personality with
respect and help him implement his will in a constructive manner.
C) A subordinate goal: learning to distinguish emotions in a Socratic dialogue:
The
ability of offenders and victims to be guided by facts here and now
makes it possible for helpers to handle potential offenders with
dignity, objecting, however, in particular aspects.
By his
attentive, respectful and even consciously submissive attitude, the
helper signals the potential offender non-verbally of his readiness to
surrender or subject to his concerns if it will be helpful for a
critical step, i.e. to be taught by better arguments, to agree with the
offender at first and to leave the matter (at the moment) hanging in the
air as it is. A possible means could be “a serving ritual of
submission”, that is, for example, to serve tea, to cook a meal, to
offer a cigarette etc.
Another method could be: to strengthen the
respect of the offender's personality and his “being taken seriously”,
the helpers should offer alternatives for him to choose. 1. He should
write down these alternatives with his own words in “dignified and
classy tranquility” (as a ritual) 2. The helpers should ask if they
understood and expressed his matter correctly and 3. The helpers should
let the offender evaluate the alternatives on his own.
Important:
the voice of the helpers should become an instrument of conciliation by
changing its pitch and timbre. A means to strengthen this effect in
future could be the use of pebble stones (in the pocket of the trousers)
and also the use of sound-stones (cf. Prof. Fessmann, Mozarteum
Salzburg).
D) A subordinate goal: to learn to take a decision in favor of an emotion
The new basic orientation should help cognitively anchor emotionality, direct it and train this ability.
E) A subordinate goal: learning to communicate inspiration
The
helpers should enthusiastically and with personal engagement support
the potential offender in realization of his decisions. A means could
be: to smile, praise, laugh spontaneously together while training
meaning-oriented possibilities.
Spontaneous, also dance-like role
plays and non-verbal improvising language should provide effect of the
previously undertaken actions with a new attitude, views and behavior
patterns.
Finally, specific planning should result in a new concept
of life and be simulated through concrete ideas, plans, computer graphs
and tables.
Outlook
(Packages of)
measures should be then divided into actions, developed into different
measurable outputs and “results” and offered within the framework of the
EU project as an innovation on the topic of violence. Conferences to
represent the project are foreseen on request.
Dr. Peter Amann, Duenserstrasse 12c, A-6822 Schnifis,
Tel. +43-5524-8591, Fax +43-5524-8788